Thursday, December 13, 2012

The C.A.L.M. Act...a Welcome Relief for Sensitive People

Television commercials, especially for car dealerships, drive me batty.    Now we know why...the volume of the TV commercials are intentionally turned up compared to the volume of the television program itself.

Now, congress has passed a law, the "Commercial Advertisement Loudness Mitigation" Act that will mitigate the crazy car salesman who love nothing more than to blast our eardrums into oblibion!


That salesman screaming at you to buy some new product during your favorite show will have to start minding his manners. Starting Thursday, TV stations and cable providers can no longer crank up the sound during commercials.
It's about time, according to local viewers who are tired of having someone other than their spouse yell at them in their living room.
It's gotten so bad that Robert Freund of Hanover watches most football games without the volume on.
"My husband's a big football fan, so that shows you how annoying it is if he's willing to do that," said his wife, Renee Freund, who herself has learned to watch programs on her DVR so she can skip annoying ads.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Highly Sensitive Men.....

I was contacted by an Empath Connection reader and am gladly re-posting his wonderful article about Highly Sensitive men.....

Michael Smith

I am a Highly Sensitive Man
By Rick Belden

Editor’s Note: Research tells us that high sensitivity, discerned from a pattern of observation before action, affects 15-20% of individuals of many species, including humans. Rick Belden, a poet, writes about the experience of being a highly sensitive person. 

A few years ago, I was attempting to get closer with a woman I liked. We’d been working together for several years and knew one another solely on that basis, but I wanted something more personal with her. I’d been feeling a powerful sexual and romantic attraction to her for a long time, but given our relationship as peers in a work environment, I was being very deliberate in my attempts to gauge her interest in me and careful in my efforts to move things forward.

When I’m attracted to someone, I tend to move slowly and gradually anyway; in this case, having lived through my share of work-related romantic entanglements, rejections, and disasters, I was eager to avoid any situation that might turn awkward for either of us.

Things seemed to be progressing in the direction I desired, albeit slowly and with frequent yellow flags, but nevertheless, I finally felt confident enough to share something more personal with her than our daily chitchat about our lives in and out of work. She knew I was a writer and that I’d had a book of poetry published because I’d spoken about it during our many visits. I decided to offer it to her and find out if she was interested enough in me to read it. I asked her if she might like to see the book, and she said she would, so I brought a copy to work and gave it to her.

I didn’t want to appear too eager or overly invested in her opinion of the book, so I didn’t bring it up again after giving it to her. One day, while we were outside walking during a break, she mentioned she’d finished reading it. Doing my best to appear as cool as possible and not betray the anxiety that had been building ever since I’d first offered her the book, I said, “Great. What did you think?” And she said:
“I think you’re abnormally sensitive for a man.”

Obviously, this was not the sort of response I was hoping to hear. It’s not the sort of response any man ever wants to hear, any time, from anyone, most certainly not from a woman to whom he’s attracted and with whom he’s just taken the supreme risk of showing his vulnerable side.

It was a painful experience for me, to be sure, but not the first. I’ve heard variations on this theme all my life:
“Don’t be so sensitive.”
“You’re too sensitive.”
“You need to stop being so sensitive.”

To read the full article, click here.

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